Tuesday, November 27, 2007

November 27th

Best date of the year!
Well, in my most humble opinion it's special.
Today, I share my birthday with three cousins, Lavern, Kenneth and Suzan. Happy happy joy joy, yall!!!

We share this date with some other cool folks as well.

Sheila O'Malley
Actress/writer

Francois d'Aubigne Maitenon - 1635
French writer and courtesan.
"The true way to soften one's troubles is to solace those of others."











Charles A Beard - 1874
US Historian

Gail Sheehy - 1937
Writer
"Creativity can be described as letting go of certainties."

James Agee - 1909
Writer/critic

Bruce Lee - 1940
Martial Artist/actor

Jimi Hendrix -1942
Guitarist/songwriter/singer
"'Scuse me while I kiss the sky"

Bill Nye - 1955
Science guy











David Merrick - 1911
American stage producer

Buffalo Bob Smith - 1917
Television host Howdy Doody Show

Marshall Thompson - 1925
Actor








Eddie Rabbit - 1941
Singer

James L. Avery Sr. - 1948
Actor







Caroline Kennedy - 1957
Journalist, JFK's daughter

Robin Givens - 1967
Actress

Jaleel White - 1976
Actor






These people Died on 11-27
Eugene O'Neill - 1953
US playwright
"Obsessed by a fairy tale, we spend our lives searching for a magic door and a lost kingdom of peace."

John Carradine - 1988
Actor











Baby Face Nelson - 1934
American gangster

Harvey Milk - 1978
American politician (assassinated)


Emperor Xiaozong of China was born Nov 27, 1127
How 'bout that.

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Transgender Awareness

Alexandra Billings has posted a wonderfully informative and fun series of videos and pictures. The info includes a Transgender history timeline. However, I did notice there was an item missing from the timeline.
In 2003, Alexandra Billings in the ABC TV movie, Romy and Michelle-A New Beginning, became the first Transgender female to play a Transgender female on television. And now with subsequent roles she is the most seen Transgender female on TV.

Along with the pictures and videos, Alex's personal comments are gems. She speaks of something I remember her saying to me many years ago - that she does not feel that she was born in the wrong body. At first that confused me. I'd never heard that attitude before. But she explained that she feels she was born Transgender, and there's nothing wrong about it. I got it.
I love that, I understand it, and I believe it.

So please, go learn and enjoy those faces and the diversity, from the brilliant Lynn Conway to the amazing strut of Chili Pepper. Thanks Alex!
Here are just a few of my favorite pics and peeps.


Alexandra and the Grey's Anatomy cast accept GLAAD Award for an outstanding GLBT relevant episode.




Trans rapper Katastrophe





Singer Josh Klipp with dancer and girlfriend Sarah, on the Tyra Banks show.




One of the nicest people I know, Honey West.

Transgender Day Of Remembrance November 20, 2007

In November of 1998, Rita Hester, a Transgender woman in Boston, Massachusetts, answered a knock at her door. Instead of a friend, however, the person at the door was an assailant who forced entry into her apartment and stabbed her over twenty times. Rita's death that night proved to be the event that focused the attention of transgender people everywhere on the terrible violence often inflicted on trans people.

Beginning in 1999, a day in November has been set aside as a day to remember our brothers and sisters killed during the past year and honor those like Rita who died in previous years because of gender identity/expression ignorance and hatred. The annual Transgender Day of Remembrance also serves to raise public awareness about hate crimes against trans people. Many cities worldwide hold vigils and memorial services. Whether standing up at a vigil or just raising your own awareness, we all need to stand with this community against this violence.


We should remember that hatred kills in many ways.

Ronnie Antonio Paris was only three years old when he died in January 2005. Ronnie Antonio was beaten to death by his father, Ronnie Paris, who felt the child was behaving "like a sissy" and was terrified the child would grow up to be less than a "real man." Ronnie Antonio Paris died of brain injury from repeated head trauma.

Tyra Hunter died in 1995 after a car accident due to the insensitive non-treatment of emergency techs who discovered she was transexual.

Maribelle Reyes
Location: Houston, Texas
Cause of Death: AIDS; Reyes was turned away from
several treatment centers due to her transgender status.
Date of Death: August 30, 2007

The TransGriot, and she truly is, has a series of excellent posts for this 9th annual Day of Remembrance:
There's Something About "Deception"
HRC, Keep Your Moneygrubbing Hands Off Our TDOR
Transgender Children FAQ (excellent post)
Making Change: The Cost of Being Transgender
Disposable People
Transgender Day of Remembrance- Peeps We've Lost
(There are very few that make the media and so very many that do not. In the Remembering our Dead series, we learn some of their faces and stories.)

Saturday, November 17, 2007

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...


This is a gift to women in poetic form, by Maya Angelou. (Thanks Dustin)

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...

A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
One friend who always makes her laugh...
And one who lets her cry...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her
family...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
Eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a
meal that will make her guests feel honored...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A feeling of control over Her destiny...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to fall in love without losing herself...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to quit a job,
Break up with a lover,
And confront a friend without ruining the friendship...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
When to try harder and when to walk away...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her
hips, or the nature of her parents...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she would and wouldn't do for love or more...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to live alone...even if she doesn't like it...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it
personally...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Where to go...be it to her best friend's kitchen table, or a charming
inn in the woods...when her soul needs soothing...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplish
In a day...
A month...
And a year...

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

Dr. Donda West


Donda West 58, mother of hip-hop star Kanye West died Saturday in Los Angeles. Dr. West was a retired professor and former chairwoman at (Monica's and my Alma Mata), Chicago State University English department. Our thoughts and prayers go out to our Chicago homeboy and his family.

Friday, November 09, 2007

ENDA Passes the House

The United States House of Representatives, in a 235 -184 vote in the early evening of November 7, passed the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA), which provides federal protection barring workplace bias against gays and lesbians.

32 years after the first gay civil rights measure was introduce by NY Rep. Bella Abzug, ENDA became the first GLB bill approved by a house of Congress. Openly gay Representative Barney Frank can celebrate this victory. He worked hard for it. Frank is joined by Speaker of the House, Nancy Pelosi and GLBT organization, the Human Rights Campaign, in declaring this a victory.


Not celebrating is ENDA co-sponsor Congresswoman Tammy Baldwin, the only other openly LGBT House member. She is not celebrating because the version of ENDA that passed, excluded provisions barring discrimination based on gender identity and expression that were originally in the bill when introduced. The protections for Transgender Americans were extracted from the bill pretty much for expediency. Because according to Frank, it would be easier to get it through.
Rep. Baldwin fought for a Transgender inclusive bill. Perhaps she doesn't believe in using the time and money and talents and numbers and shoulders of Trans people to climb up, then leave them dangling by their fingertips with your foot in their face, with only some lame promise about going to get a ladder. "We'll be back for you. Be patient. Hang on. Oops, sorry, watch your fingers".

Representative Baldwin knows that Transgender people have been there from the beginning,(hell, they were the beginning) standing with GLB Americans and that they actually need these protections more. They are now left to struggle alone. And now thanks to this betrayal from their supposedly own community, fuel is added to the fire of those who believe gender identity is a false issue and doesn't need addressing at all by law.
If your own kicks you to the curb.....

In a floor debate before the bill went to a vote, Congressman Frank said.
"There are people who are your fellow citizens who are being discriminated against. Please don’t turn your back on them."
How did he get the balls to say that?

What was accomplished by rushing to pass a watered down (even in it's GLB protections) Trans exclusive bill that caused a hurtful, divisive riff in the GLBT community? This law still has a mountain to climb in the Senate and no chance to be signed by Bush in any form. The best hope for ENDA is in 2009 with a hopefully more liberal Senate and a Democratic president. So why turn your back on your own for such a shallow gain?? This was a lose/lose endeavor.

For a Transgender point of view check the Transgriot's excellent post and be sure to read the thoughtful responses.

Tuesday, November 06, 2007

Ahhh Sweet Mystery of Life

I've been thinking a lot about the beauty of life in all it's phases, even the one that sucks. My mom, Jojo, is now in hospice care. I had to learn what that meant and it scared the hooey out of me at first. But now I understand that it is as much about living as well as possible, for as long as possible, as it is about dying a peaceful dignified death. It's about family coming together to enable her to leave this world feeling peace and love. I've learned about the physical part and the emotional-spiritual release part, but you are never prepared and it still scares the hooey outta me.

Jojo, who has always been the boss of this clan from the great-grands to her husband, (who will be just pitiful), are all trying to carry on as normal as if this is not hanging over us.
My mother is feisty and smart as all hell and thinks she's a comedian and never lets us forget she's still the mom. She decided for her third go around with cancer, that she wanted no more chemo and was inexplicably calm and brave. "Let whatever's going to happen, happen", she said. Now, she is doing so well, it's confused her, made her anxious and fearful. We and the hospice social worker determined when talking to her that she may have been ready but now she doesn't feel like she's going anywhere. After being assured that it was perfectly OK to feel fine, and normal to have anxieties, she is better. She still gets anxious more quickly than usual and we still have to assure her that it's OK that she's not in pain or feel like she's dying. Of course she doesn't know what that feels like. Is it agony or warm and comfortable? Confusion. She said she woke up feeling so "warm and comfortable" she thought something was "sneaking up on her". To which my sister Marcia, quickly replied, "yeah that was me". This got her some rolled eyes. Mom had been uncomfortable and in pain, so now with the pain patch and other adjustments, she is feeling pretty good. But with all her calm bravery in deciding to enter hospice, she is scared. We are too.
Monica's mom had a stroke in February and died in May. But, she was not awake and communicating. So, I tell you friends, I've never gone through anything like this before and I know it will get more intense to say the least.

It's remarkable how in these situations everyone does (or does not) do their part, how wounds heal or are opened. My sister has been wonderful. I can feel an old closeness returning in our working together for our mom. We are quite different people and have many issues. We are working through some and around some, but feeling an old, or is it a new appreciation for each other. That's a gift. So, I am trying to count the gifts in this here situation and it gets hard sometimes. Thank goodness my family is so full of tricksters and comics. Jojo being the main one.

Saturday, October 20, 2007

Your Mother My Mother


Alexandra's Video Friday features this brilliant gem.
Everything your mother ever said, set to the tune of the William Tell Overture. Alex's blurb about the video is funny too.



Gioachino Rossini
William Tell Overture

Friday, October 19, 2007

Deborah Kerr

Stage and Screen actress Deborah Kerr, 86, died October 17, 2007. She was one of my favorite actresses in some of my fave movies;
The King and I, Tea and Sympathy, An Affair to Remember, Heaven Knows Mr. Allison, and From Here to Eternity, are just a few.
She was nominated for 6 Academy Awards and was awarded an honorary Oscar in 1984 for her body of work as
"an artist of impeccable grace and beauty, a dedicated actress whose motion picture career has always stood for perfection, discipline and elegance." Despite her beauty, class and elegance however, this redhead was not above smudging her makeup, or even going without when the part required. In combination with all her properness, she had a quiet, sort of smoldering sexiness right below the surface, that added mystery and interest to her roles. She was one of the best.

The King and I with Yul Bryner and An Affair to Remember with Cary Grant

Thursday, October 18, 2007

All Locked Up

It's not a super expensive 25 speed Tour DE France racer or a fancy smancy ultra equipped mountain bike. It's a bike.
Mes Deux Cents, (see link on the right), a wonderful and picturesque blog I really like, had this funny bike lock overkill pic up. Perhaps the owner built this cycle themselves with love and it's priceless to them or they've been burned an awful lot by bike thieves.



I hope some thief doesn't see this as a challenge. Good grief!

Monday, October 08, 2007

Before I Disappear



We spent a wonderful extended weekend in Three Oaks, Michigan and saw Alexandra Billings' powerful play described as an autobiography in story and song.

This is truly God's country. Only one hour from Chicago, right across the lake, just over the Indiana border, is a picturesque rural community complete with horses and cornfields. Here in small town mid-America, Alexandra's play Before I Disappear was presented in the Acorn Theater, a 200 seat restoration that used to be the historic Featherbone Factory (corsets). The Acorn also houses an art gallery and a gorgeous 1925 Barton organ.


Before I Disappear has been called Alexandra's tour de force for it's writing and performance. It's been described as a journey from boyhood to womanhood, a hilarious, and sometimes harrowing, roller coaster journey through her complex life.

Alex plays all the roles with only a chair and a tin lunchbox as props. Yet, the stage was full with vivid dramatizations and the people in her life.
The play flows through the history of her personal toll of being Transgender and the choices sometimes forced by society's disrespect and lack of options. By the end of Act II, it comes many times full circle, like little Scott Billings fighting the slimy green dragon with his sword. He grows into a swashbuckling Alex fighting AIDS, cutting off each new dragon head complete with her own sound effects. It's amazingly vivid and triumphant.
Before I Disappear is heavy but also so very funny. It's as light as it is dark, about ignorance and about learning, about weakness and strength, walking lifes tight rope and juggling, about hate and death and about survival, but more about living life out loud and love.
This play does what theater should do. Allow the audience experiences other than their own. And, as brilliant director Mary Beidler Gearen says was her goal, hopefully to build bridges.
After the play, chatting and chilling out on a beautiful night, Alex and Monica discovered they could actually see twinkling stars that seemed so close and not washed out by Chicago city lights or obscured by L A smog.

Sunday, September 30, 2007

Diva gets Sacked

This is an interesting story posted yesterday in the Chicago Suntimes.
by Laura Emerick

One of opera's big stars has been fired for conduct unbecoming a diva.
Soprano Angela Gheorghiu, scheduled to sing Mimi in Puccini's "La boheme" at Lyric Opera of Chicago, was dismissed Friday for missing rehearsals, said general director William Mason.
Gheorghiu, who has a history of misbehavior at other leading opera houses, missed six of 10 rehearsals for "La boheme," which opens Monday. She and her husband, tenor Roberto Alagna, are known as opera's "Love Couple." He has an equally tempestuous record; he made headlines in December after being booed off the stage at La Scala in Milan during Verdi's "Aida."
"An opera is a collaborative process, and there must be a serious artistic commitment from everyone," Mason said. "We can't allow anyone to be a distraction by their lack of respect for their colleagues."
The last straw came Tuesday, when Gheorghiu missed a full-orchestra rehearsal and left for New York City to attend her husband's opening night performance of Gounod's "Romeo et Juliette" at the Metropolitan Opera. Thus, she violated her contract by leaving Chicago without permission, Lyric contends.
In a statement released by her publicist, the Romanian-born soprano said, "I needed to be by Roberto's side at this very important moment. I have sung 'La boheme" hundreds of times, and thought missing a few rehearsals wouldn't be a tragedy."
Gheorghiu will be replaced by her understudy, soprano Elaine Alvarez.
"I've never seen anything like this kind of behavior before," Mason said. "This is the first time we've ever done anything like this."
Mason said that even Pavarotti and soprano Kathleen Battle -- notorious because the Met fired her in 1994 for "unprofessional actions" -- showed up for rehearsals. Pavarotti, who died Sept. 6, got booted for canceling engagements at Lyric.

Monica and I planned to see this opera especially for Gheorghui's tragic Mimi.
I love La boheme, it was my first exposure to opera way back in grade school. I'll never forget how my teacher spoon fed Puccini's opera to his very reluctant class. He painted the story and the characters so brilliantly we could feel them. When he brought in a film, it was magical. We understood it, even in Italian. We were all silent and mesmerized. Even the boys loved it.

Well, Miss Diva did not respect the opera, the company or the director. She didn't bother to clear her missed rehearsals or consider how it would effect others. After all she is the star.
I'd previously read that the wonderfully talented soprano Kathleen Battle is hellish to be around, too. I can imagine that being so extraordinarily talented requires a big ego and lots of star studded baggage. I realize it's your name up there and your name that puts the butts in the seats, but does that mean you can't be nice or at least respectful to the others working with you?
So, on the eve of the Boheme opening, Diva Gheorghiu gets sacked worse than Rex Grossman does on any given Sunday. The show will go on and perhaps a new star will be born.
Hopefully she learned some important lessons from Miss Gheorghiu.

Saturday, September 22, 2007

Jena, Missed it's Own Lesson

White residents of Jena, LA attribute the view of Jena as racist, to "outsiders" who don't really know our town. Well Deja vu. These are EXACTLY the same words used during the civil rights era by so many rural townspeople. "We do just fine here until those outside agitators came". Remember that?
But, it bothered me to see young folk echo their elders mantra in situations that made no sense.
An interviewer's question - "How are the race relations in the high school? Why was there a "white tree"?
Jena High student- "We are fine here. The problem in our school was brought in by outsiders".
So, outsiders came into the Jena public high school and established the "white tree" that black students dare not sit under. I don't think so.

When some black students decided to test this peculiar tree sitting, they went to the school office and asked if they can sit under said tree. Assured that it was ok, a few black students sat under the tree for lunch and breaks just as the white students did. The next day hanging from the tree were three nooses. The students responsible were expelled but that punishment was overturned by the school board as too harsh. So they served a 3-day in-school suspension for this "prank".

Needless to say this provoked hurt feelings. So did the subsequent driving around waving Confederate flags to the cheers to people on the street; the gun pulled on black students filling their tank in a gas station; the set up invitation to a black student to a white party where a bottle was broken over his head (the white teen assailant gets a legal slap on the wrist); the intimidating school assembly, complete with sheriffs police and threats to black students not to make a big deal over this "prank"; and finally the extreme taunting and use of the "N" word by the white teen (who had been involved in several on and off school incidents) being knocked down and beat up at school. This student was treated, released and he attended a social function that same evening. Six black teens were charged with attempted murder.

Well, Jena saw some "outsiders" September 20th when more than 50,000 Americans came to the small town of 2900 to protest the attempt to put these teens away for life.

Jena residents that I saw interviewed were concerned that the nation will view Jena as racist. How interesting to watch these people, many of whom really believe there are no race problems. Well, for them there aren't. "We shop in the same malls and go to the same movies and go to the same schools. You people have the wrong idea, we are not racist." When black residents are interviewed the answers are quite different. There is a lot of fear in Jena. Fear to speak up or buck the systematic racism that is at the core of that city - so ingrained that it is almost normal. Fear deep, for Blacks and whites. The mother of Mychal Bell, (a black teen still jailed) says many white Jena residents told her they support her son and the others but are afraid to say so. Healing and uniting, silenced by fear.

Monica Roberts mentions this protest march, that was described as disciplined, focused, peaceful, uplifting and inspiring, as being an opportunity for a teachable moment for our youth about our history and the civil rights movement. Absolutely.
Now, they may not see the fire hoses or dogs or ax handles, but the symbols embodied in nooses and Confederate flags, white only shade trees, and the reality of double standard justice is a chilling lesson.

Jena, so concerned about it's image, missed a golden opportunity September 20th to show the nation what they were made of and to stand up and teach their children and bring the people of Jena together. Instead, they closed down city functions, officially incommunicado, and many boarded up their houses, yes boarded up, closed their businesses and left town for the day.
I hope the good folks of Jena, and towns like Jena, will use this painful situation to see the truth, face the fear and make changes.



They were of all ages.



They came in buses, big rigs, motorcycles and on horses.





They remembered a time not so long ago.



Martin L. King III



Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Things that make you go ..hmmm

Got this from Alex who got it from Sheila O'Malley. Check out their answers, check out mine and add yours.

1. Is your second toe longer than your first?
No.

2. Do you have a favorite type of pen?
I like Erasermate.

3. Look at your planner for March 14, what are you doing?
Give me a break.

4. What color are your toenails usually?
Clear. I don't usually like colors on my toes, but sometimes a pale pink.

5. What was the last thing you highlighted?
Something in some magazine article.

6. What color are your bedroom curtains?
Very pretty rose-ish sheers.
I love when you accidently find something that matches. While looking for something else, we found window treatments for the living room that remarkably matched the pattern on our lamp shades. What fun. We love it! We had already bought window treatment curtain panels for which my sister loves to and was all ready to swirl and knot and dip and clip. We took all of that back to the store.

7. What color are the seats in your car?
Light gray.

8. Have you ever had a black and white cat?
Yes. His name was Misty Bobo. Don't ask.

9. What is the last thing you put a stamp on?
Birthday card.

10. Do you know anyone who lives in Wyoming?
No.

11. Why did you withdraw cash from the ATM the last time?
So I would have some money? I don't know.

12. Whose is the last baby that you held?
Our dear friends James and Marilyn's baby, our God daughter, Betty. She is so beautiful and sweet and Heavy.

13. Unlucky #?
Don't got one.

14. Do you like Cinnamon toothpaste?
Yuck.


15. What kind of car were you driving 2 years ago?
Teal Toyota Corolla. Our Teal mobile. It was totalled last May by the doofus who rear ended us at a RR crossing. Our totally totalled teal Toyota. It was terrible but we were ok.

16. Pick one: Miami Hurricanes or Florida Gators?
I once had some favorite sweat pants with a big Florida Gator on one leg. So Gators.

17. Last time you went to Six Flags?
About two years ago, we had some free passes.

18. Do you have any wallpaper in your house?
No. But, we added a ceramic tile backsplash behind our kichen sink. It was quite a production with gloves and brushes and grout. We were scared, but it turned out great.

19. Closest thing to you that is yellow?
A picture on our home office wall has a yellow background. It's of Curious George, painting. We altered it to look like he was painting Georgia O'Keefe flowers and called it Curious Georgia O'Keefe. We like O'Keefe.

20. Last person to give you a business card.
An Optomitrist.

21. Who is the last person you wrote a check to?
Rent. The only check I write anymore.

22. Closest framed picture to you?
Another one in our office, pics of me, Monica, my niece Cheryl, and nephew Nolen in caps and gowns from various graduations from kindergarten to masters.

23. Last time you had someone cook for you?
Monica, breakfast.

24. Have you ever applied for welfare?
Not so far.

25. How many emails do you have?
On my main account/name I try to keep up. I have different names for different uses, but then forget to check the others as regularly as I should.

26. Last time you received flowers?
Don't remember a date? We do it occasionally for no reason in particular.


27. Do you think the sanctity of marriage is meant for only a man & woman?
I agree with Alex.

28. Do you play air guitar?
Certainly.

29. Has anyone ever proposed to you?
Yes, one man and one woman. (Sticks tongue out at Alex).

30. Do you take anything in your coffee?
Cream and sugar when I occasionally drink coffe.

31. Do you have any Willow Tree figurines?
No. Should I?

32. What is/was your high school's rival mascot?
Oh please.

33. Last person you spoke to from high school?
Susie. but, I've actually reunited with a few via My Space.

34. Last time you used hand sanitizer?
Few days ago. It's great for on the go, and for kids with their nasty little selves.

35. Would you like to learn to play the drums?
Yes. I know two women who play drums, Princess, and Sandy who also plays bass.

36. What color are the blinds in your living room?
Off white. My plants are begging me to open them.

38. Last thing you read in the newspaper?
Story about Crocs (shoes) getting stuck on escalators. Lots of injuries happening. I don't wear them, but yall be warned.

39. What was the last pageant you attended?
Never happened.

40. What is the last place you bought pizza from?
Ordered-Giordanos. Frozen- Califorina Thin Crust.

41. Have you ever worn a crown?
Does Burger King count?

42. What is the last thing you stapled?
I live with a teacher. I am a stapling fool.

43. Did you ever drink clear Pepsi?
There is no such thing.

44. Are you ticklish?
Yes.

45. Last time you saw fireworks?
July 4th.

46. Last time you had a Krispy Kreme doughnut?
A while back. Krispy Kremes make my head buzz and I see stars. SUGAR HIGH!

47. Who is the last person that left you a message & you actually returned it?
My nephew.

48. Last time you parked under a carport?
Dunno

49. Do you have a black dog?
No

50. Have you had your mid life crisis yet?
Well, considering I do not know when I will die, I don't know where the middle part is or which crisis that would be.

51. Are you an aunt or uncle?
Oh Yeah. One niece, one niece-in-law, one nephew and two great-nephews.

52. Who has the prettiest eyes that you know of?
The prettiest, I'd have to honestly say Alex's wife, Chrisanne. They are green, intelligent and expressive which adds to the beauty.

53. What kind of soap or body wash do you use?
Dove. I entered the Dove Bodywash video contest and got some free. It's great!
Now Dove, please stop sending me e-mails for stuff!

54. Do you remember Ugly Kid Joe?
Who??

55. Do you have a little black dress?
Nope. It's been bugging me. Every girl should have one.

Congrats! WNBA CHAMPS!!


The Phoenix Mercury beat the 2006 defending champions the Detroit Shock in their own house, to take the 2007 Trophy.

Star player Deanna Nolan and the Shock, couldn't hold off MVP Cappie Pondexter and the Mercury in the fifth game of the finals.



Both teams are to be congratulated, but my girl Cappie was awesome!

Saturday, September 15, 2007

George W. Bush

We all know where we were on that horrid 9-11 morning, and how we learned of the terrorist attacks. We all know that our dear president thought it more important to finish reading a story to the class he was visiting, than to simply say sorry kids, there's been an emergency, I have to leave.
Alexandra's Video Friday feature includes an interesting video of Bush's memory of how he learned of the events in NYC.

I didn't know that after reading the story he still did not leave. I recently saw a tape of Mr. Bush in the school assembly hall filled with teachers and students, explaining that he had to leave because "a terrible thing has happened in our country." There was an audible moan from the crowd. But, they should have already known since there was a TV outside the classroom? Don'tcha think?

The sad thing is, that this president would feel the need to stand before people and tell an outright, detailed lie, about that morning.
And, if he would lie about something so simple...........

Friday, September 14, 2007

Ja Rule's Mirror

Well, rapper Ja Rule takes issue with Congress looking into the effects of hip-hop lyrics on society. Check out his view of who the real culprits are in this excerpt from his interveiw with Complex Magazine to promo his new CD "The Mirror".


C: Did you see that report about Congress preparing to hold hearings??
Ja: (interrupts) Yeah, they got my man Doug Morris under fire and shit, they got him going down to go speak to Congress about hip-hop lyrics, are you fucking serious? There's a fucking black kid right now about to get 25 years for having a fight with some white kids over hanging the nooses over the white tree, lets get to that. Let's get into shit like that, because that's what's tearing up America, not me calling a woman a bitch or a hoe on my rap songs. And if it is, then we need to go step to Paramount, and fucking MGM, and all of these other motherfuckers that's making all of these movies and we need to go step to MTV and Viacom, and lets talk about all these fucking shows that they have on MTV that is promoting homosexuality, that my kids can't watch this shit. Dating shows that's showing two guys or two girls in mid afternoon. Let's talk about shit like that! If that's not fucking up America, I don't know what is. There's a lot of issues we can address besides hip-hop, but they want to put everything on us like we're the problem. But see, and this is going to be a shameless fucking plug, but I said, "when everyone wants to point the finger, and ask why there's so much corruption, they only need to look in the mirror." It starts with themselves.

Interesting suggestion Ja. Your mirror must come from some carnival fun house.

Friday, September 07, 2007

Luciano Pavarotti

Back in April, I linked over to Steve Schalchlin for a magnificent collaboration of two of the most soulful men ever to grace a stage. Luciano Pavarotti and James Brown, from totaly different places on the musical genre scale, are perfect examples of what "soul" is all about. They both looked the part too. James Brown looked like "Soul Brother #1" and when you saw Pavarotti, with his sculpted beard and huge majestic presence, he looked every inch like the Worlds Greatest Tenor even before he sang a note. I love to watch this man sing.
Everyone is so surprised by this duet, but these two artists weren't. They understood that they spoke the same language of music and passion.



Alexandra's Video Friday, features Pavarotti today. Go and enjoy the music and the man. Luciano Pavarotti R.I.P.

Stop Playing Us, Mr. Bush

I don't like users even if they happen to be the President. I just hate the shameless, sappy new TV and radio commercials using widows, parents, disabled vets and patriotic servicemen of the Iraq war. I realize the sacrifices of these people are great and that it may be unthinkable that it may not have been necessary. I just hate the way these ads use them to bolster his "we've got to win in Iraq" position.

Check out Keith Olbermann's comment on Bush's "surprise" Iraq visit, the way he plays us and our having to endure 500 more days of this prez.

By Keith Olbermann
Anchor, 'Countdown'
MSNBC
Updated: 8:20 p.m. CT Sept 4, 2007

And so he is back from his annual surprise gratuitous photo-op in Iraq, and what a sorry spectacle it was. But it was nothing compared to the spectacle of one unfiltered, unguarded, horrifying quotation in the new biography to which Mr. Bush has consented.
As he deceived the troops at Al-Asad Air Base yesterday with the tantalizing prospect that some of them might not have to risk being killed and might get to go home, Mr. Bush probably did not know that, with his own words, he had already proved that he had been lying, is lying and will be lying about Iraq.

He presumably did not know that there had already appeared those damning excerpts from Robert Draper's book “Dead Certain."

“I'm playing for October-November," Mr. Bush said to Draper. That, evidently, is the time during which, he thinks he can sell us the real plan, which is “to get us in a position where the presidential candidates will be comfortable about sustaining a presence."

Comfortable, that is, with saying about Iraq, again quoting the President, “stay... longer."

And there it is. We've caught you. Your goal is not to bring some troops home, maybe, if we let you have your way now. Your goal is not to set the stage for eventual withdrawal. You are, to use your own disrespectful, tone-deaf word, playing at getting the next Republican nominee to agree to jump into this bottomless pit with you, and take us with him, as we stay in Iraq for another year, and another, and another, and anon.

Everything you said about Iraq yesterday, and everything you will say, is a deception, for the purpose of this one cynical, unacceptable, brutal goal: perpetuating this war indefinitely.

War today, war tomorrow, war forever!

And you are playing at it! Playing!

A man with any self respect, having inadvertently revealed such an evil secret, would have already resigned and fled the country! You have no remaining credibility about Iraq.

And yet, yesterday at Al-Asad, Mr. Bush kept playing, and this time, using the second of his two faces.

The president told reporters, “They (General Petraeus and Ambassador Crocker) tell me if the kind of success we are now seeing continues, it will be possible to maintain the same level of security with fewer American forces."

And so, Mr. Bush got his fraudulent headlines today. “Bush May Bring Some Troops Home."


While the reality is, we know from what he told Draper, that the president's true hope is that they will not come home; but that they will stay there, because he is keeping them there now, in hope that those from his political party fighting to succeed him will prolong this unendurable disaster into the next decade.

But, to a country dying of thirst, the president seemed to vaguely promise a drink from a full canteen -- a promise predicated on the assumption that he is not lying.

Yet you are lying, Mr. Bush. Again. But now, we know why.

You gave away more of yourself than you knew in the Draper book. And you gave away more still, on the arduous trip back out of Iraq hours in the air, without so much as a single vacation.

“If you look at my comments over the past eight months," you told reporters, “it's gone from a security situation in the sense that we're either going to get out and there will be chaos, or, more troops. Now, the situation has changed, where I'm able to speculate on the hypothetical."

Mr. Bush, the only "hypothetical" here is that you are not now holding our troops hostage. You have no intention of withdrawing them. But that doesn't mean you can't pretend you're thinking about it, does it?
That is your genius as you see it, anyway. You can deduce what we want. We, the people, remember us? And then use it against us.

You can hold that canteen up and promise it to the parched nation. And the untold number of Americans whose lives have not been directly blighted by Iraq or who do not realize that their safety has been reduced and not increased by Iraq, they will get the bullet points: "Bush is thinking about bringing some troops home. Bush even went to Iraq."

You can fool some of the people all of the time, can't you, Mr. Bush? You are playing us!

And as for the most immediate victims of the president's perfidy and shameless manipulation of those troops -- yesterday sweating literally as he spoke at Al-Asad Air Base -- tonight, again sweating figuratively in The Valley Of The Shadow Of Death, the president saved, for them, the most egregious "playing" in the entire trip.

“I want to tell you this about the decision, about my decision about troop levels. Those decisions will be based on a calm assessment by our military commanders on the conditions on the ground, not a nervous reaction by Washington politicians to poll results in the media."

One must compliment Mr. Bush's writer. That, perhaps, was the mostly perfectly-crafted phrase of his presidency. For depraved indifference to democracy, for the craven projection of political motives onto those trying to save lives and save a nation, for a dismissal of the value of the polls and the importance of the media, for a summary of all he does not hold dear about this nation or its people nothing could top that.

As if you listened to all the "calm assessments" of our military commanders rather than firing the ones who dared say the emporer has no clothes, and the president, no judgment.

As if your entire presidency was not a “nervous reaction," and you yourself, nothing but a Washington politician.

As if “"he media" does not largely divide into those parts your minions are playing, and those others who unthinkingly and uncritically serve as your echo chamber, at a time when the nation's future may depend on the airing of dissent.

And as if those polls were not so overwhelming, and not so clearly reflective of the nation's agony and the nation's insistence.

But this president has ceased to listen. This president has decided that night is day, and death is life, and enraging the world against us is safety. And this laziest of presidents, actually interrupted his precious time off to fly to Iraq to play at a photo opportunity with soldiers, some of whom will on his orders be killed before the year maybe the month is out.

Just over 500 days remain in this presidency. Consider the dead who have piled up on the battlefield in these last 500 days.

Consider the singular fraudulence of this president's trip to Iraq yesterday, and the singular fraudulence of the selling of the Petraeus Report in these last 500 days.

Consider how this president has torn away at the fabric of this nation in a manner of which terrorists can only dream in these last 500 days.

And consider again how this president has spoken to that biographer: that he is “playing for October-November." The goal in Iraq is “to get us in a position where the presidential candidates will be comfortable about sustaining a presence." Consider how this revelation contradicts every other rationale he has offered in these last 500 days.

In the context of all that now, consider these next 500 days.

Mr. Bush, our presence in Iraq must end. Even if it means your resignation. Even if it means your impeachment. Even if it means a different Republican to serve out your term. Even if it means a Democratic Congress and those true patriots among the Republicans standing up and denying you another penny for Iraq, other than for the safety and the safe conduct home of our troops.

This country cannot run the risk of what you can still do to this country in the next 500 days.

Not while you are playing.

Wednesday, September 05, 2007

Bush Surprise Visit to Iraq


Just a short note to emphatically remind yall that in the U. S. Government there is no such thing as a "surprise visit". No such thing ever exists, EVER.
As a former fed employee, believe me, they cleaned up every inch of space he walked on or could possibly see. They interviewed and rehearsed every U.S. soldier and Iraqi he talked to. There would be no mess, no disgruntled or dissension anybody anywhere. Anything unseemly he sees is pre-arranged or okayed by everyone.
What a crock.